HELP!!! My husband of almost twelve years (two kids) has had several emotional affairs throughout our marriage. However, he doesn't consider them affairs cause he claims he never slept with any of the women. And he always gets sloppy and tells on himself by accidently leaving out the other woman's phone bill he's been paying or leaving his email account open. I told him he is in denial and that my trust in him is gone. I asked for access to his phone records from now on and he is refusing. Even telling me that it's really all my fault because I won't loose my baby weight and since opting to be a stay home mom, I don't have his back when the money is low. So in his eyes he is justified. Well, here is the problem. I don't think there is ever a reason to cheat, no matter what. But I can't even get him to see that he is actually cheating even if there is no sex. Since he is putting up such a fight about his phone bill and telling me it's my fault, I guess that means he is still doing it and has no plans on stopping. I honestly don't think he will stop even if I loose weight and go to work. He has the heart to cheat. And since in his eyes he's not cheating, should I assume the worst? Should I leave him now or give him what he wants and let him hang himself?
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My husband won't admit his emotional affair
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Posted 1 month ago #
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so sorry for the situation you are in. I can't help but wonder if your husband is sloppy or really wants you to find out about his outside activities. Maybe he is trying to force your hand. Also it is hard to imagine that he is paying other women's bills without any intimacy between them beyond emotional. Please be safe.
Posted 1 month ago #
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